If we love…

If we love someone, we will surely want to motivate them to do and be the best they can. We will look for the good that is within them and build on top of that. People who like others and who believe that they have good intentions seem to inspire others to do their very best. On the contrary, people who are always seeking the worst in others will find it. Here is an example: In a certain school, a test was given at year end to every student and, at the beginning of the following year, the teachers were given a list of names of those who had the highest scores. At the end of that year, the children on the list of the best scores had increased their grades considerably. Actually, the names on the list of the best had been chosen at random. The only thing that had changed was the attitude of the teachers who treated those children as if they were the best students. The lesson was that to motivate people to do their best, we need to expect the best of them. Jesus did that to Simon when he gave him the name Peter before he became strong. He called Zacchaeus and Matthew to be apostles when they were still tax-collectors. He called the sinful woman in John 8 to a pure life on the day she had been caught in adultery.

Let us seek the best in each other and motivate them to do and be their very best. This includes our children, our spouses and our brethren.

Keep your eyes on Jesus.

Joe

Published by berlinbeast

We are a family trying to follow God's will for our lives.

One thought on “If we love…

  1. Thanks for sharing your viewpoint on this topic! I would like to add to the discussion:
    The line between encouraging others honestly, and people-pleasing is very thin. When we say good things but don’t mean them, we are not being true to ourselves and to our chain of thoughts.
    But when we forget to make an intentional effort of finding the good in people, we become overly critical and sometimes toxic to those around us.
    We must practice mindfulness to find the best in people and then communicate it to them to make sure we can be authentic and positive at the same time.

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